How to say no professionally Just say no. Easier said than done, I know and especially now. It’s really, it’s harder than ever to create your own healthy boundaries around your time and energy and this is because all of our natural physical boundaries have all been taken away. So the time when you were travelling, you were unavailable. The…
How to control negative emotions Anger, fear and sadness. The three main categories of what we view as negative emotions. Now if like me you’ve been feeling some of these or a lot of this is over the last three weeks, know that there is a really effective technique of dealing with them, and we all tend to have a…
Positive things to say to yourself What’s the kindest thing you can say to yourself or do for yourself right here, right now? If like me you have a tendency to beat yourself up, ruminate on past failures or mistakes, never acknowledge what you have achieved what you are doing or if you suffer from imposter syndrome or perfectionism, they’re…
Fear is otherwise known as false evidence appearing real. And this is because all fear and anxious thoughts are about something that has not yet happened. And this is what spins us out and sends our brain into even more anxious thoughts because it cannot fix or solve this thing that we’re imagining because it hasn’t yet happened and this…
Be grateful for today Good morning on this Monday apparently it’s a Monday on are we third-week lockdown? So I am out on my morning run I just have to come and do this and I’m just wondering as well, you know, this is what’s keeping me sane, keeping me healthy, whatever that means now just means able to deal…
Do you have anything any last words of wisdom for people around managing fear and the stuff that you’ve been talking about? What’s your biggest wisdom to share? Well, as well as just come right here right now. What do I have? The other one is, is when you’re speeding up is when you need to slow down. Oh, I’m…
Having an anxiety attack help How are you doing out there? What do you need? I’ve been speaking to loads of people and clients who are feeling really anxious, worried, really overwhelmed, really inundated with stuff to manage and in amongst all of this are in pure survival and fight or flight mode. I’m also hearing from lots of coaches…
How to set and keep New Year’s Resolutions (or any new habits)
Reasons why New Year’s Resolutions (or any new habits) fail